American society and the world are indisputably moving forward towards respecting the rights of gays and lesbians to marry and live equally among heterosexuals. This is an enormous accomplishment within a short period of time. It was only a couple of generations ago that homosexuality was prosecuted as sodomy and gay people hated by society at large. Even a generation ago, much of this was still true. Today, the old bigotries are falling to the wayside for most, but not all people.
Opposition remains among the strongly religious who see homosexuality as a sin that they cannot accept. Others, less religious, are simply monomaniacs who despise those who are unlike themselves. For both of them, they see homosexuality as a choice, like choosing a flavor of a pie or color of an automobile. They are wrong, and science is beginning to prove that homosexuality is no more a choice than the color of one’s skin, hair or eyes are a choice.
Recent studies have provided further evidence why gay people do not choose to become gay but simply are gay. Current research shows that homosexuality is a combination of genetics and environment. Basically, it appears that a predisposition depends on the makeup of one of the mother’s X chromosomes, which is then influenced by chemical interactions in the environment during pregnancy or early childhood. These chemicals can arise from man-made substances like plastics or pesticides to natural occurring ones. None of this is easily controllable by human behavior. So if you let your son play with dolls or your daughter is a tomboy, that has nothing to do with either becoming attracted to the same sex.
Obviously, gay people don’t have many children. So, you may ask, why hasn’t evolution bred out this genetic outcome? It seems that the same part of the X chromosome that allows for homosexuality also brings increased fertility in women. In sum, female relatives of gay men have more children.
Total this together, and it is clear that discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation is wrong for a civilized society based on reason over emotion.
Those who hold strong religious beliefs like to point to their personal values. In an odd coincidence, the last few years have seen two incidents, one in the United States and the other in Britain, involving the refusal of highly religious people to sell cakes for gay marriages. The argument is that providing cake with a message favorable to same-sex marriage violated the provider’s religious beliefs.
Most businesses, whether run by religious or non-religious individuals, don’t give a hoot about the personal beliefs of their customers. They are simply interested in a financial transaction. However, some are so caught up in their self-righteous belief that they think they know how others should live. They are willing to turn aside good business sense for narrow-mindedness. Somehow, these individuals believe that they are sanctioning a life of immorality by preparing a cake. In fact, being contracted to writing a message on a cake doesn’t imply that the writer endorses the message any more than a sign painter endorses a business by painting a sign for it or that a carpenter supports marijuana legalization because he helped refurbish a medicinal marijuana outlet.
The argument that providing cake for a same-sex marriage undermines one’s religious beliefs is further weakened by the selective nature of that argument. There are customers who come into Christian businesses all day long who hold different religious beliefs or have stolen, lied, adultered and coveted many things of their neighbors. All these deeds are part of the Ten Commandments. Yet, services are still provided for these people by Christians and other fundamentalist believers of religion. For some reason, homosexuality is considered a greater sin, even though it is not forbidden in the Ten Commandments, nor did Jesus ever utter a word against it. Basically, the refusal to provide an economic service for gays is arbitrary and selective.
Since the people who claim their religious liberties are being imposed upon are not consistent with their religious beliefs, and because the overwhelming evidence is that homosexuality is not a choice but biological, there is no reason for a civilized society to allow such blatant discrimination against people who want nothing more than the legal right to love one another.